Clanking is the sound I hear as the ropes hit the masts on the sailboats tied to the dock nearby, the swift breeze rocking them to and fro. The raging sound of an outboard motor zipping from across the lake carries as if right in front of me as a neighbor goes out to pick up the local paper, as he does every Sunday morning. There is no delivery when you live in a boat-access-only camp.
Puffy clouds filled with dark droplets waiting to pour out float sluggishly across the cloudscape sky. In the distance a slight hint of rust on some leaves hails an early indicator of fall.
Summer, as of this weekend, is officially over. It’s as though it just started, not only because time flies when you’re having fun, it flies when you’re tied down and staying home.
The Year That Never Was
I find it almost impossible to believe we’re this far into the year that never was. The year that disappeared behind a mask. The year that forced us into lockdown, only to discover things about ourselves we otherwise would never have known.
As we put a bow on summer and set it to drift off into the glorious sunset of fall, I continue to ponder our world, the effects of world events, and the pandemic.
Years ago my grandfather told me a story of when he was a child. His ailing, bed-bound grandfather was lying in bed, talking to my grandfather and his cousin Clifford. “Boys, you need to get on your bicycles and go down the road to Mrs. Tompkins’ house. I think you’ll find her hunched over in her rocking chair on the porch, holding her baby. You need to go fetch that baby and bring it back here, because Mrs. Tompkins is dead.”
Of course, the boys thought that was ridiculous because he had no way of knowing that, yet to humor him, they rode down the road, only to find Mrs. Tompkins holding the baby, sitting in the rocker, dead.
The Voice of God?
I’d ask my grandfather if his grandfather had special powers of some sort, and he always said, “No, he was just always listening to God.”
As I’ve thought about this over my life, I too have experienced it on occasion. One morning I had a dream, woke up, and called Lee, the morning DJ at the radio station I worked for. I said, “Lee, congratulations on the baby girl.” He said, “Eric, you must be dreaming. The baby isn’t due for three more months, and we know it’s a boy.” Then I told him my vivid dream that it had been born early, and said it seemed very real. We both laughed. Then five minutes later he called me and said, “Eric, how did you know? My wife, Sandy, was trying to reach me, but I was on the phone with you. She just had a baby girl.”
My wife always says things like, “I’ve got a feeling something bad is about to happen,” and her track record of intuition is often spot on.
Learning to Listen
One of the benefits of the Pandemic of 2020 is that our lives are quieter now. I’m not one to believe in fortune-tellers or soothsayers, and even the Bible warns against that. But I do believe that we all have very high levels of intuition, and that we tend not to listen to it because we stay too busy.
When we’re not on a whirlwind roller coaster, when we’re not commuting two hours a day or rushing off here and there, we can hear the voices in our heads. Maybe, as my grandfather said, it’s the voice of God.
Better Days Ahead
I tend to be a contrarian, and I’m not a worrier. During this moment of civil unrest, COVID, and political battlegrounds, I’m not feeling worried. In fact, I feel as though it will lead us to a new place, a better place where our lives are more balanced, where our world is more balanced, and where the things that have plagued our lives for generations will no longer be problems.
I think people are implementing change in their own lives, and as a result will expect, perhaps demand, change in all aspects of life.
Are you ready?
Time to Not Be Busy
Am I crazy? Maybe.
I want to encourage you to take this special day, this holiday weekend, and take some time to not be busy. Turn off the media, turn off social media, surround yourself with quiet. In Japan they call it “forest bathing.” I’ve been doing it for months, and avoiding social media and the news.
By doing this, taking two-hour walks in the deep forest, I’ve found I’m in touch with the voices in my head. Maybe it’s just wishful thinking. Maybe it’s more.
I have no idea if these thoughts mean something new is really on the horizon, but that matters less. What matters more is that I’m experiencing quiet, and it is allowing me to think, to hear, to listen.
What about you?
No “Woo Woo” Here
I’m not a “woo woo” kind of guy, and if I had heard someone say what I just said, I’d be worried for them (and maybe ready to call the men in the white coats).
But I can say one thing for sure … We’ve all been too busy. Our lives have been crazy. We went from missing all the stimuli in the beginning to now wishing they don’t return, at least not at the level we once had them. COVID-19 has brought that blessing to the world, and I think the world is about to come together in a new way never seen in our lifetimes. This will begin a new era of change, which I think will change everything about what we accept, what we do, and how we do it. It’s almost as if we will flop 180 degrees from where we were.
Call me nuts. But stop, look, listen, and you may see things changing too. Though life has been good, it’s been too busy, too insane, and too overstimulated. Take a deep breath and pay close attention. And we may be ready to accept change, and things you would have never believed.
Eric Rhoads
P.S. The voices in my head told me that I needed to pivot and start online art conferences, and they have started to save my ailing business. The next one, Realism Live, is going to be huge. Already 1,200 are signed up, and there are two months to go. If you want to learn art or get better, take a peek.
Thoughts and prayers to those who suffered in the recent hurricanes and fires. What’s next? Locusts? But let’s stay positive. I’m there for you daily, 165 days in a row as of today. Catch me on Facebook Live and YouTube at noon Eastern daily. (Search Eric Rhoads or Streamline Art Video.)
My husband and I are in our mid seventies. When I found your videos and messages, I found an anchor to hold on to. Thank you , Eric, for being YOU.
Eric, I just want to take a moment to say thank you. Thank you for listening & pivoting. I’ve learned so much just from hearing the live sessions with various artists and seeing the portion of videos you’ve made available. So, thank you. Thank you for sharing your heart also.
sincerely,
Debra Meekins
Bless you, Eric. And thank you so much for “Sunday Coffee”. Such a Great way to start the day and the week.
And also thank you to all who have commented. I would echo others . . . “Be still and know that I am. . .” Deep breath. . . Being still.. . . . Becoming calm. . . . . And softly, quietly . . . you feel the hand on your shoulder, the hug.
Thank you to all of you. Have great week and a great , and thoughtful life.
Always enjoy your Sunday letter. Encouraging you to keep going. Thanks
Interesting serendipity this morning. After reading your thoughtful Sunday Coffee column, we decided to do our exercise while watching a video about walking in the Adirondacks . The one we picked was called “A Sunrise Walk in the Woods” and subtitled ‘Shinrin-yoku”, Japanese for ‘forest bathing’. Pretty good video by SoulRepose ASMR done in 2017. No talking, no music. The photographer did a pretty good job of just walking through the beautiful woods, stopping occasionally to inspect leaves, the streams, rocks, the path,etc.
Eric, Thank you for sharing all your positive words and encouragement with us during this difficult time! In the book of Ester she was told that she was in her position for such a time as this! I feel like this is true of you Eric, you have helped so many. I’m sure your grandfather prayed for you and prayers are eternal ( timeless) I’m sure he is proud of you! Keep sharing your positive thoughts and helping us creatively cope! Blessings from a Dreamliner!
Thanks so much for all you do and have done for the painting world. I love Sunday Morning Coffee, since it contains so much inspiration every week. See you in Denver !
Thank you for “Sunday Morning coffee,” they are always inspiring and this one especially.
You are spot on Eric. I’m going on 88 and have been able to manage using the art of meditation in good times or bad. In fact and interestingly, I’ve discovered that I usually do better financially during difficult times. I’ve never been sure why except that I always have a positive attitude and keep on plugging while others seem to pull back and even give up.
BTW thanks so much for your great attitude and support by publishing the many art demos. I have watched about 25 of them and taken in all of your marketing ones – good stuff. You are my kind of guy which I find rare these days.
I wish I could participate in plein air activities again but I am the sole caregiver (dementia) for the love of my life of over 50 years, but I try to paint a little every day anyway. I even managed to complete a ten week series of “painting a week” paintings which I recently published in my newsletter, the Kleven Kronicles. I plan to do another series beginning in October. It was great fun and so rewarding.
I enjoyed this reflection on the past six months and feel the same way about “getting off the merry-go-round” for awhile to pause and reflect on life and our world.
having spent time at a summer cottage on a lake I can visualize the paintings your words are painting. Will try to take a forest walk and get rid of media for a while. Blessings
Several years ago, I heard about a study by insurance companies that dealt with why some survived unbelievable accidents while others had minor injuries and wound up dying. They concluded that those that survived just remembered to breath.
I believe we experience both physical and spiritual battles in our lives. The solutions to these situations are sometimes complicated, yet I find that each trial has a solution. As an engineer, I discovered that complex problems could often be solved by going back to the basics. There is an old adage that says: “Inch by inch, life is a cinch, yard by yard it is very hard.” When life slaps you down, remember to breath, get back up and keep getting up until your deliveror shows up. Spiritually we put on the armour. The armour absorbs the force of the blows until faith speaks and vanquished it’s fiery darts. Until then breathe.
Thanks Eric for sharing your wisdom. God bless you brother.
Home run!!!!! Oh you have hit it out of the ballpark with your words of hope and inspiration. I watch your presentation on YouTube every day at noon. Oh what a joy to see the works of modern masters as they share their skills and thoughts with the world through your daily presentation.
Blessing on your open love of our LORD and Savior Jesus Christ, who you share heart and love of mankind in these times.
Steve Weaver – Bremen, Indiana
Thanks, Eric, for a lovely Sunday morning coffee! As God says in His word:”Thou will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is staid on Thee.” He did NOT say that the one who’s mind is focused on all the problems will have peace. The more we focus on Him, the better we can hear, and understand what He is saying. Many have found this out during the quarenteen. Unfortunately, sometimes we have to be forced to “be still and know that I am God.” And what a difference it makes in our lives!!! He communicates with those who want to listen. Thanks again for all your encouragement. I hope you are encouraged also.
I couldn’t agree with you more, Eric. I do think this slowing down is a good thing for all of us. Glad you are experiencing some of this yourself. Enjoy today.
THanks for this great reminder Eric, for me personally I’ve come to the realization that my 9-5 job and all the madness of this rollercoaster life has been keeping me from even practicing at home. SO I will be shifting my schedule to wake up at 4:30 to start in my studio for 4 hours before I need to start my daily meetings etc. I think God is preparing his people, God Bless.
Eric, I appreciate your positive and hopeful message . I am also a realist . We are enjoying the benefits of Labor Day because of hard fought rights that workers in previous generations got for us today. As much as I am trying to stay in the moment and moving toward a more peaceful acceptance of the world around me , I also realize that ” thoughts and prayers ” are not always enough to create positive changes. As we move toward a new reality , each of us needs to ” be the change ” to make ALL peoples’ lives more fulfilling and meaningful. How we do this is the challenge.
I am on my way to Florida as my Dad was taken to the hospital with congestive heart failure. These are hard times. But there is hope. Hope that we have reflected, learned and are ready to release the past and to embrace a better future. My Dad is ready if this is his time to embrace eternity and I am grateful.
Dear Eric,
Each week I read your letter and learn something positive from you.
You are so right, things are changing completely. For us, in Israel, having peace with an old hating ennemy, so suddenly, and see that new friend so enthousiastic and affectionate is incredible and wonderful.
It is true that in my country we are witnessing miracles every day, just as told in the Bible so long ago, but it is always so amazing to feel God at work silently, making miracles which look “normal”. You just have to “see and listen”, as you rightly say.
I have great admiration for you, for your positiveness, your faith and all the things you have already done.
God bless you, continue sharing your “thoughts” with the world, it is more important than you may think.
Wishing you lots of success in your enterprises,
All the very best for you and your family, and all the good people around the world,
Rachel
I sure hope you are right about this bringing us to a better place. Today is my 74th birthday and I have never been more worried about our country and the world at large. I avoid the news as much as possible because I can’t stand our president and the hate he has fostered among our country’s diverse population (which I love).
I continue to paint with my friend. We get together twice a week and it is my sanity. I have always been an optimist, but I’m finding that a challenge in these times. Your Sunday coffee note helps a lot. Thanks for writing it.
Bob Dylan has a song”Are You Ready?” Take a listen or better yet read the lyrics. You can google it.
Love your Sunday Morning Coffee!
‘Be still and know that I am God!’ Sometimes when my children were small and they had had worked themselves up into a state of anger or crying I would take hold of them to stop the progression of negative behavior. Our God does that for us when we allow life to spin out of control and let it pull us away from him.
Kip has been playing a little song every night on his echo as I am finishing his care for the day.
‘ Jesus says that if I thirst, I should come to him,
Only he can satisfy, I should come to him.
Jesus’s said that if I’m weak , I should come to him,
Only he can be my strength, I should come to him.
For the Lord is good and faithful, he will keep me day and night, we should always run to Jesus , Jesus strong and kind.
Jesus said that if I fear I should come to him,
Only he can be my shield I should come to him!
For the Lord is good and faithful, he will keep me day and night, we should always run to Jesus, Jesus strong and kin
Jesus said that if I’m lost, he will come to me!
And he showed me on that cross he will come to me!
For the Lord is good and faithful, he will keep me day and night I can always run to Jesus, Jesus strong and kind!’
Cityalight (an Australian group)
You’re on point once again. You CAN hear God speak if only you take the time to slow down and actually listen to what He has to say to you. Hearing is one thing but actually “listening” and paying attention to what you hear is something completely different. I look forward to my Sunday morning coffee with you. You’re a good friend. Thanks for caring.